In 30 days, handle tantrums with steady control, clear action, and consistent follow-through.

In 30 days, handle tantrums with steady control, clear action, and consistent follow-through.

Tantrum Taming Tactics is a 30-day cohort for parents of children aged 25, with daily lessons, tracking, and live support to help you stay steady, contain escalation, and follow through consistently.

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Is Tantrum Taming Tactics right for you?

Is Tantrum Taming Tactics right for you?

Is Tantrum Taming Tactics right for you?

Do you frequently snap, freeze, or spiral when your child loses it?

Do you leave the moment feeling guilty, shaken, or like you failed again?

Do you frequently snap, freeze, or spiral when your child loses it?

Do you leave the moment feeling guilty, shaken, or like you failed again?

Do you frequently snap, freeze, or spiral when your child loses it?

Do you leave the moment feeling guilty, shaken, or like you failed again?

Do you find yourself over-explaining, bargaining, or raising your voice, and it still escalates?

Do you feel like you don’t have a clean way to contain the moment once it starts?

Do you find yourself over-explaining, bargaining, or raising your voice, and it still escalates?

Do you feel like you don’t have a clean way to contain the moment once it starts?

Do you find yourself over-explaining, bargaining, or raising your voice, and it still escalates?

Do you feel like you don’t have a clean way to contain the moment once it starts?

Do you struggle to follow through on boundaries when pressure hits?

Do you give in to stop the chaos, or threaten consequences you can’t sustain?

Do you struggle to follow through on boundaries when pressure hits?

Do you give in to stop the chaos, or threaten consequences you can’t sustain?

Do you struggle to follow through on boundaries when pressure hits?

Do you give in to stop the chaos, or threaten consequences you can’t sustain?

I’m Darius Ryan-Kadem, a parent, parenting author, and educator focused on early childhood development, especially emotional regulation, behavioural expression, and parent–child relational dynamics.

I train parents of toddlers and preschoolers with developmentally informed strategies for responding to emotional outbursts, defiance, and distress without punitive control.

My work draws on developmental psychology, attachment theory, and neuroscience to teach a structured, connection-first approach that strengthens attachment, emotional literacy, and behavioural resilience.

I distil complex research into clear, practical tools parents can use in real moments, especially during tantrums, transitions, and oppositional behaviour.

I’m Darius Ryan-Kadem, a parent, parenting author, and educator focused on early childhood development, especially emotional regulation, behavioural expression, and parent–child relational dynamics.

I train parents of toddlers and preschoolers with developmentally informed strategies for responding to emotional outbursts, defiance, and distress without punitive control.

My work draws on developmental psychology, attachment theory, and neuroscience to teach a structured, connection-first approach that strengthens attachment, emotional literacy, and behavioural resilience.

I distil complex research into clear, practical tools parents can use in real moments, especially during tantrums, transitions, and oppositional behaviour.

All parents of 2–5-year-olds face the same tantrum problems.

All parents of 2–5-year-olds face the same tantrum problems.

If you’re reading this, chances are one or more of these patterns is happening in your home, on repeat, and it’s draining your energy, your patience, and your confidence.

And chances are, you already know you should have a better way to handle tantrums, which is why you’re on this page in the first place.

Whether you want to stop losing your cool, reduce daily blow-ups, or become the calm parent your child can actually follow, this is where you start.

The 10 most common tantrum traps:

The 10 most common tantrum traps:

Snapping

Snapping

Snapping

Freezing

Freezing

Freezing

Spiralling

Spiralling

Spiralling

Over-Explaining

Over-Explaining

Over-Explaining

Bargaining

Bargaining

Bargaining

Second-Guessing

Second-Guessing

Second-Guessing

Escalation

Escalation

Escalation

Giving In

Giving In

Giving In

Inconsistency

Inconsistency

Inconsistency

Empty Threats

Empty Threats

Empty Threats

The regulation you've been missing.

Handling tantrums on your own is hard.
Not because you don’t care.
Not because you don’t know what to do.

It’s hard because when pressure hits, you lose access to your capacity.

In that moment, even good intentions and solid knowledge disappear.


Most parents already know they should say less, stay steady, and follow through.

The problem is accessing that capacity when emotions are high.

Tantrum Taming Tactics is built to train regulation in real moments.

Here's what you get instant access to:

Here's what you get instant access to:

The Training

- 30-day cohort for parents of children aged 2–5 - Daily lessons (10–12 minutes/day) - 25 video lessons across 5 chapters - Daily implementation prompts so you know exactly what to practise

The accountability

- WhatsApp check-ins on set days (group + DMs) - Weekly tracking questionnaires (fast, simple) - Behaviour tracking tools to spot patterns and measure progress

The real-world support

- Weekly live call (4 total) for troubleshooting and correction - Real-life tantrum scenario library for high-pressure moments

Access

- Lifetime access to the full content library - Lifetime access to the community

The Training

- 30-day cohort for parents of children aged 2–5 - Daily lessons (10–12 minutes/day) - 25 video lessons across 5 chapters - Daily implementation prompts so you know exactly what to practise

The accountability

- WhatsApp check-ins on set days (group + DMs) - Weekly tracking questionnaires (fast, simple) - Behaviour tracking tools to spot patterns and measure progress

The real-world support

- Weekly live call (4 total) for troubleshooting and correction - Real-life tantrum scenario library for high-pressure moments

Access

- Lifetime access to the full content library - Lifetime access to the community

The Training

- 30-day cohort for parents of children aged 2–5 - Daily lessons (10–12 minutes/day) - 25 video lessons across 5 chapters - Daily implementation prompts so you know exactly what to practise

The accountability

- WhatsApp check-ins on set days (group + DMs) - Weekly tracking questionnaires (fast, simple) - Behaviour tracking tools to spot patterns and measure progress

The real-world support

- Weekly live call (4 total) for troubleshooting and correction - Real-life tantrum scenario library for high-pressure moments

Access

- Lifetime access to the full content library - Lifetime access to the community

*Founding cohort note: live support and delivery format may evolve as the programme develops, your lifetime access remains.

The Tantrum Taming Tactics Curriculum

The Tantrum Taming Tactics Curriculum

Over 30 days, you’ll work through five core areas that build on each other:

1 - Regulation under pressure

Train access to capacity so you don’t snap, freeze, or spiral when emotions run high.

2 - Containment & de-escalation

Learn exactly what to do and say in the moment to stop escalation without giving in.

3 - Follow-through & boundaries

Hold limits calmly and consistently, without threats, bargaining, or backtracking.

3 - Follow-through & boundaries

Hold limits calmly and consistently, without threats, bargaining, or backtracking.

4 - Tracking & pattern interruption

Identify triggers, spot patterns, and interrupt the loops that keep tantrums repeating.

5 - Tantrum reduction system

5 - Follow-through & boundaries

Hold limits calmly and consistently, without threats, bargaining, or backtracking.

Build routines, repairs, and consistency that reduce intensity, duration, and frequency over time.

What to expect:

What to expect:

$300

/one-time

A 30-day cohort with daily lessons (10–12 minutes) and a weekly live call during your active month.

Limited seats per cohort

Features

Support runs inside Skool

WhatsApp check-ins on set days

Lifetime access to the content library and community

$300

/one-time

A 30-day cohort with daily lessons (10–12 minutes) and a weekly live call during your active month.

Limited seats per cohort

Features

Support runs inside Skool

WhatsApp check-ins on set days

Lifetime access to the content library and community

$300

/one-time

A 30-day cohort with daily lessons (10–12 minutes) and a weekly live call during your active month.

Limited seats per cohort

Features

Support runs inside Skool

WhatsApp check-ins on set days

Lifetime access to the content library and community

Your questions, answered:

Your questions, answered:

How does this work?

How much time does it take?

What if I miss days or fall behind?

Important to know

How does this work?

How much time does it take?

What if I miss days or fall behind?

Important to know

How does this work?

How much time does it take?

What if I miss days or fall behind?

Important to know

If you’ve followed me for any amount of time, you already know I’ve put out hundreds of videos, real-life examples, and frameworks you can use immediately.

And if watching more videos was enough, you wouldn’t still be getting pulled into the same moments, snapping, freezing, spiralling, or second-guessing yourself when your child loses it.

What changes tantrums is building the ability to stay steady under pressure, contain the moment, and follow through consistently, even when it’s loud, messy, and emotional.

Tantrum Taming Tactics is a 30-day cohort built around practice, tracking, and accountability, so those skills become reliable in real life, not just in theory.

Join now for instant access to the content library and community, and you’ll be placed into the next available cohort.

Everything you get:

  • 30-day cohort experience (parents of 2–5)

  • Daily lessons (10–12 min/day) + daily implementation prompts

  • Weekly live call during your active month (4 total)

  • WhatsApp check-ins on set days (group + DMs)

  • Weekly tracking questionnaires + behaviour tracking tools

  • Real-life tantrum scenario library

  • Lifetime access to the content library + community

Everything you get:


  • 30-day cohort experience (parents of 2–5)

  • Daily lessons (10–12 min/day) + daily implementation prompts

  • Weekly live call during your active month (4 total)

  • WhatsApp check-ins on set days (group + DMs)

  • Weekly tracking questionnaires + behaviour tracking tools

  • Real-life tantrum scenario library

  • Lifetime access to the content library + community

In 30 days, handle tantrums with steady control, clear action, and consistent follow-through.

In 30 days, handle tantrums with steady control, clear action, and consistent follow-through.

In 30 days, handle tantrums with steady control, clear action, and consistent follow-through.